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Talk to your doctor if you are
pregnant and are concerned that your child may have effects from
fetal alcohol spectrum disorder (FASD). If you are not
able to talk openly with your current doctor, consider finding another doctor
with whom you feel more comfortable. Your doctor should treat you with respect
and be willing to work with you to find out whether your child is at risk for
FASD-related problems. He or she should also make an effort to help you address
and manage any alcohol-related problems that you may have. Call your local
hospital or a community referral center for suggestions on finding a doctor or
other support person.
You can help your child with effects from
FASD by:
- Getting treatment for any
alcohol dependence or
alcohol abuse problems that you or other members of
your family may have. Identifying and managing alcohol problems will help you
provide the stability and security your child needs to develop to his or her
full potential.
- Learning how to
care
for your baby with alcohol effects. A baby with a severe form of FASD,
fetal alcohol syndrome (FAS) or fetal alcohol abuse
syndrome (FAAS), may be very sensitive to stimulation (touch, sounds, and
light), have sucking problems, and have trouble accomplishing developmental
tasks. If your baby seems irritable and colicky, try to soothe him or her in a
quiet, dark room. Avoid as much as possible taking your baby to crowded or
noisy places. If feeding is difficult, feed your baby smaller amounts more
frequently, maybe as often as every hour. If you bottle-feed your baby, use a
nipple made for a premature infant.
- Encouraging your toddler or
school-age child to gain independence and to behave well. Providing
structure and seeking intervention when needed are important for reaching these
goals.
- Scheduling regular visits to the doctor as your child grows.
These visits are important for monitoring the effects of alcohol exposure.
Treating problems early can help minimize their effect on your child's
development.
- Helping your teen or young adult to adapt to greater
responsibilities. A teen may benefit from social skills training, which may
include professional
counseling for emotional problems or a mental
disorder, such as
depression. Use community services, such as vocational
training programs, to help your teen or young adult prepare for and find an
appropriate job. A young adult who is severely affected may need to live and
work in a situation that provides supervision. But many adults with alcohol
effects can live independently.
A child with FASD is at risk for low self-esteem, which is
a child's core belief about himself or herself. You can help your child develop
a healthy self-esteem by encouraging a sense of belonging, a feeling of being
valued, and confidence in learning.
Growth and development: Helping your child
build self-esteem
Help for parents
One of the most important ways
you can help your child with FASD is to
take
care of yourself. Talk with your doctor about resources in your
community that may help you and your child. Staying positive and healthy makes
it more likely you will have the strength to provide a loving, stable home.
These qualities are important for your child to develop to his or her full
potential.
You may need help dealing with your feelings about
your child's problems. Seek counseling if you need it. For more information,
see the topic
Grief and Grieving.
Don't drink if you
are pregnant. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that all pregnant
women and women who are planning to become pregnant not drink alcohol.2
Get alcohol treatment if you or other members
of your family have an alcohol problem. Use birth control to prevent pregnancy
until after you complete treatment. For more information, see the topic
Alcohol Abuse and Dependence.