Where to Go From Here
Talk with your family about whom you have selected as your
health care agent and explain the reasons why. Try to
openly discuss the types of medical care you would or would not want under
various circumstances. Make it an ongoing conversation; you may decide to first
introduce the idea by bringing up the fact that you have selected an agent. If
your family has difficulty discussing the issue, provide more information
gradually.
Make sure your
advance directive forms are kept in a safe but
accessible place, such as in your desk with other important papers. Let your
loved ones know where you keep your forms. Give copies to your agent, lawyer,
doctors, family members, and anyone else you think should have one. Do not keep
them in a safe deposit box because if you are not able to communicate, your
family may not know how to access them. Similarly, don't rely on your lawyer to
be able to provide the documents when they are needed. Your family may not know
whom to contact.
You can make changes to any advance directive at any time. This
includes changing your health care agent. You should fill out a new form for
any changes except very minor ones, such as a new phone number or address.
Communicate with your health care agent. If you change your mind
about medical care matters and make a new living will, keep your health care
agent up to date.
For more information on living wills and medical powers of
attorney, see the topic
Writing an Advance Directive. For more information on
other end-of-life issues, see the topics
Hospice Care and
Care at the End of Life.