Home Treatment
Home treatment usually is all that is
needed for
breath-holding spells. At home you can:
- Decrease the likelihood of breath-holding
spells. Make sure your child gets plenty of rest so he or she is less
likely to become overly tired and easily frustrated. Also, help your child to
feel secure, such as by giving him or her the chance to make simple choices and
by having regular routines.
- Protect your child from
injury during a spell. Some basic measures include protecting your
child's head, arms, and legs from hitting something hard or sharp, and touching
and talking to your child. This may also help you to stay calm. Remind yourself
that the spells are not hurting your child and that your child will grow out of
them in time.
- Model the anger control you wish to see your child
use. Try not to overreact while the spell is going on.
Corporal punishment, such as spanking, does not help
manage a child's behavior.
After a spell, briefly reassure your child. Keep in mind
that your child is not doing this on purpose. Don't punish your child for
having a breath-holding spell.
Other children watching your child
during a breath-holding spell may feel afraid. Reassure them by saying,
"Everything will be okay. It is not your fault."
If your child has
breath-holding spells, make sure all caregivers understand their cause and
treatment. Adults who see a child during a spell may panic or try inappropriate
measures to help a child. Say calmly, "My child is having a breath-holding
spell. Everything will be okay in a minute or so."
Keep in mind
that breath-holding spells do not:
- Interfere with your child's growth and
development.
- Cause permanent brain damage.
- Lead to
mental illness or emotional problems.
- Lead to seizure
disorders.
Talk with your doctor if:
- Spells become more frequent or more severe or
change their pattern.
- You have trouble dealing with your child's
breath-holding spells. Counseling may help you handle your concerns and
feelings. Do not spank your child or use other types of corporal
punishment.
In general, parents who know what to expect from their
children at different ages are better able to help their children learn and
mature. Helping your child gain independence and self-confidence in the early
years is important and may help reduce breath-holding spells. Ask your doctor
for information on how to help your child gain a sense of independence, boost
his or her self-confidence, and learn to handle frustration. For more
information, see:
Growth and development: Helping your child
build self-esteem.