These stories are based on information gathered from health
professionals and consumers. They may be helpful as you make important health
decisions.
Darla, age 35: I have a friend whose child was
born with Down syndrome. She did not know about her baby's Down syndrome until
after he was born, and it was emotionally difficult for her to deal with the
diagnosis. I remember how hard it was for her and her family to adjust to a new
life with a special-needs child. I want to know before giving birth if I am
going to have a child with a disability. This will give me time to prepare
emotionally as well as time to prepare to have my baby at a hospital that is
equipped to care for sick babies.
Sarah, age 39: I am prepared to accept my
child, regardless of whether he or she has a birth defect, even a severe birth
defect. Even though I am at a higher risk of having a child with a birth defect
because of my age, I will continue the pregnancy regardless of the results of
an amniocentesis. My doctor and hospital are well equipped to handle my
pregnancy and delivery, so I feel that I have made the best decision for my
family and me.
Ana, age 42: I have no family history of birth
defects. However, I am 42 years old, which puts me at higher risk of having a
baby with a birth defect. I have two children already, and I feel that my time,
energy, and financial resources are at a premium. I cannot afford, financially
or emotionally, to have a child with a serious birth defect. I am choosing to
have an amniocentesis to help detect a birth defect. If the results are
abnormal, I feel it is in my best interest (and my family's) to end this
pregnancy.
Liza, age 45: I was 35 when I became pregnant
with my first child. I was nervous about pregnancy anyway and especially
worried that there might be something wrong with the baby. I decided to have
chorionic villus sampling instead of waiting for an amniocentesis because it
allowed me to find out in the first trimester if the baby had genetic problems.
If the answer had been yes, I would have terminated the pregnancy. In my case,
the answer was negative, and I was able to go through the rest of my pregnancy
feeling more at ease.